Episode 008  ·  April 23, 2026

Jose Alvarez

He Started the Car in the Garage. God Told Him to Stop.

Jose Alvarez was born in Quito, Ecuador, immigrated to the United States at 21, and spent the next two decades building a career while carrying a father's early death, a broken first marriage, and a season of darkness that brought him to the edge of his own life. He gave his life to Christ in Fayetteville, North Carolina.

He Heard God's Voice in the Garage — and That Was the Night Everything Changed

Jose Alvarez closed the garage door, started the car, and decided he was done. A few minutes later he heard a voice inside him say "It is done. It's done. Let it go." — and that was the night God got his attention for good.

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The Story

Jose Alvarez grew up in Quito, Ecuador, in a household shaped by hard work, Catholic tradition, and a father who could light up any room. Before he was ten years old, his younger brother was given a twenty percent chance of surviving leukemia — and then, after a Catholic prayer group and a brother who said he saw Jesus standing beside him, his numbers began to turn. The boy survived. Jose filed that away and kept moving. Then his father was killed in a drunk-driving accident, and the grief that followed turned into rage, and the rage found a home in a military academy that amplified it rather than corrected it.

Soccer was supposed to be the exit ramp. He trained with Club Deportivo El Nacional, one of Ecuador's historic clubs. Coaches wanted him. Then a knee injury in a rain-soaked practice ended the dream — and only three people came to see him during the eight months he was out. He filed that away too. In 2004 he immigrated to the United States with his younger brother, roughly six hundred dollars between them, almost no English, and a Greyhound ticket from Miami to New Jersey. He started as a cash moving helper at nine-fifty an hour and eventually worked commercial jobs inside Trump Tower, the offices of Lehman Brothers, and Novartis. He built what he had out of pure work ethic — and then built an idol out of it.

The marriage to his first wife collapsed two months after a military transfer brought them to Fort Bragg. What followed was what Jose now calls "detective mode" — cell records, GPS tracking, following her car through Fayetteville at night. He did not eat. He did not cry. One night he walked into the garage where his friend's car was parked, closed the door, started the engine, and rolled down the windows. He sat there telling himself his daughter would be fine without him. After a few minutes, a voice spoke inside him — clear, loud, and certain. "It is done. It's done. Let it go." He shut off the engine and wept for the first time in the entire ordeal.

His friend handed him her Bible. He opened to Psalm 23. He read the valley of the shadow of death and recognized his own life in it. He wanted to know who was speaking — not for answers, but for knowing. That Sunday he gave his life to Christ at a predominantly Black congregation in Fayetteville under Pastor Cannon, a godly math teacher who became his first mentor. Jose spent the next two years praying for his first marriage to be restored, then learned to release it. He eventually spoke forgiveness out loud to his ex-wife, prayed for her salvation for months, and years later watched his current wife Christie baptize her. The prophetic dream he had after conversion — his daughter leading her mother to the cross — had come true in every detail.

"If he can do it with me — with the stubborn guy — he can do it with anybody."

From This Episode

"It is done. It's done. Let it go."

The voice Jose heard in the garage

"The prisoner of unforgiveness is you. It's not her. You're carrying the weight. Release it."

Pastor Cannon — Jose's first mentor

"I want to make sure you know one thing. Anything that you have done, any bad things — I forgive you, because God forgave me first."

Jose Alvarez

"It wasn't for answers. It was for knowing. I want to know who this Jesus is. I can't live without this guy anymore."

Jose Alvarez

"God used one to change a whole generation. I said, Lord, if you want to use me again, have that one."

Jose Alvarez

"When you're popular, that's the easiest way for Satan to get to you, because you're not humble. And he got me in a handbag. He just really had me in a handbag."

Jose Alvarez

Scripture

Psalm 23

The first passage Jose read the night of the garage. "Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil because you are with me." He recognized his own life in it.

Proverbs 3:5-6

Jose's daily verse: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight."

Colossians 3:23

His verse for coaching and mentorship: work wholeheartedly as working for Christ, not for people. The foundation of the Four F's ministry he pours into young athletes.

Matthew 6

The scripture from Pastor Cannon's first sermon Jose attended — the one he described as God speaking directly to him from the pulpit, the day he gave his life to Christ.

Ephesians 5

Jose referenced it directly in reckoning with his first marriage: "If my wife needs to be submissive to me, I need to be more like Christ. Am I that?"

1 Peter 5:8

"The devil is like a seeking lion seeking who he may devour. A lion goes to the pack, singles one prey, corners it, and kills it. I was that." — Jose Alvarez

Topics Covered

Immigration as an adult
Fatherlessness and childhood grief
Generational alcoholism
A brother's miraculous healing
Military academy culture
Identity built on athletic achievement
The idol of work and money
The idol of a romantic partner
Starting over with nothing
Infidelity and a broken first marriage
Obsession and the darkness of betrayal
Hearing the voice of God
Conversion at a Black church in Fayetteville
Intercessory prayer for a spouse who left
The prison of unforgiveness
Prophetic dreams and their fulfillment
Blended family done right
A first wife's conversion and baptism
Coaching youth soccer as ministry
Grace in the Park outreach in Robbins, NC
The Four F's: Faith, Family, Finance, Fitness
Generational ripple of one person's salvation
Ambition vs. surrender
Full-time ministry as the next leap of faith